5 Ways To Use Your Body Language To Attract Her


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How would you like to have the upper hand before you even speak a word to her?

In case you’ve been wondering how important your body language is in to learning how to attract women, it might interest you to know that sociologists estimate that about 90% of our communication is non-verbal.

This means that if you don’t know how to use body language to attract women, you might be more challenged in communication than a deaf person who knows the rules of body language.

Well, if you’re ready to do something about this and ready to use the magic of body language to attract women, then here are three things you need to start doing today….

1. Get rid of insecure gestures.

The next time you’re out in public, start paying attention to other men’s body language and think about what it tells you about their personality.

You’ll notice right away that gestures such as fidgeting, looking around uncertainly, indecisive movements and slumped posture tells you that they are insecure or unsure of themselves.

Now when it comes to using body language to attract women, how do you think these kind of guys might appear to a woman who has never met them?

Making these kinds of observations ought to be enough for you to start correcting your own insecure body language gestures.

2. Take up space.

Have you ever noticed that some men take up more space than others?

They take up a lot of space and they almost always look as if they are on their home turf. They don’t try to guard around and dodge other people or go out of their way to make room for others.

These are guys who use body language to attract women because they demonstrate that they are confident and dominant men, which women find very attractive.

Their movements are normally slower, more decisive and they appear surer of themselves.

Pick out a few of these guys (movie stars are usually good examples), and start taking on their body language characteristics.

3. Enter her personal space.

Probably the most effective key to using body language to attract women is not being afraid to enter her personal space when you’re talking to her.

This doesn’t mean that you get up in her face, what it means is that it demonstrates to her that you are comfortable with being close to her, and (when you’ve been speaking with her for a few moments) touching her.

You’d be amazed at how much confidence you can communicate through light touches on the hand, playful little pokes, hip checks and other flirty movements that show you that you aren’t afraid to enter her space.

Of course, personal touches like this can be a little uncomfortable for both of you at first, so it’s a good idea to warm things up by touching personal items of hers like her jewelry, her cell phone or other things that she’s carrying.

4. Smile.

When you smile, you seem confident. And when you seem confident, you’re halfway toward attracting any woman you want.

But, if you bare your teeth freakishly with a scared look in your eyes, it’ll be worse than if you didn’t smile at all.

Practice smiling naturally in front of a mirror. Get used to the way it looks when you use a confident, laid back smile versus the 1,000 watt version you would use in a photograph.

5. Walk confidently.

Your walk says a lot about you and seeing you in motion telegraphs those thoughts to the women around.

Here’s the quickest way to walk confidently:

Step 1– Stand up straight.

Step 2– Put your shoulders back.

Step 3– Use long strides.

Step 4– Always look like you know where you’re going (even if you don’t).

And finally, get out there and get some practice using body language to attract women. No matter how much you read things like this, you’ll always get more benefit from real life experience.

Also, as you practice the above tips, you’ll have the opportunity to see how women respond to you. After enough of this you’ll become much more comfortable and confident in your ability to use your body language to attract women.